There’s a problem that people who are married, or couples who have been together for a long time, inevitably come across. It’s caused by the fact that, over time, there’s a tendency to fall into a routine. You might no longer feel the need to try to impress each other, or wow each other with grand romantic gestures. So if these couples don’t watch out, they find that their love lives have become somewhat stale, by the numbers or even boring.
Adding Excitement to Your Relationship
This is a problem because many people do crave excitement and surprises. Even if they’re in a long term relationship, they might long for the days when the relationship could still get their blood pumping or their pulses racing. If things have gotten boring, and no steps are taken to break out of that trap, then there’s a risk of some real damage to the health of the relationship.
The Solution: Scheduled Date Nights
That’s why many longer term couples make it a point to set up a date night. In a way, this spurs them on to think about ways to liven up their relationship and bring back some of the romance. When it comes to date night ideas, there are many possible things for couples to do. A lot of the specifics depend on the specific personalities of the couple and what they enjoy doing.
For instance, a couple might like to go for cute activities and experiences. If they’re into furry and fuzzy animals, they could plan a trip to the petting zoo, and ooh and aah over the adorable animals and critters. Or if you’re interested in this type of thing, you could keep an eye out for when the next Pixar film is going to hit theaters. Pixar flics usually have a great mix of adorable characters, great animation and some really heart-warming stories. So if you’re looking for that kind of date night, then a Pixar film is a pretty good way to go.
Date Night Doesn’t Mean Going Out Splurging
Another thing to keep in mind is that date night isn’t synonymous with a night out. It’s still possible to have a date night at home. But that shouldn’t be an excuse to get lazy and just not take the date night seriously. Instead, you still have to plan it out and make sure that the important details are in place, so that the night will be special. So if you plan to cuddle while watching your favorite movie, at the very least, make sure that the TV area is clean. Make sure you have some of your favorite snacks to munch on. Make the sofa a really comfortable place. And then watch the movie together, and really focus hard on just being together.
Also, if you’re staying in, make sure you have something special to eat. Whip something up if you have good cooking skills. But if you can’t cook, fear not. You could have something delicious delivered. Just make sure to lay it out on actual plates so you don’t end up eating out of take out containers. Unless, of course, eating out of take out containers is something really meaningful for you both.
How to Do a Cheap Date Night
Date nights can mean having to spend a bit in order to make the night interesting, or even exotic. But you can also come up with ideas that are cheap, but that are still full of meaning. Think back to the early days of your relationship. What would you eat? Where would you go? What would you watch or do? Then try to recreate some of those early, and usually less expensive experiences. The important thing isn’t the total amount spent on the date night. Here, what is important is the care and attention you put, while trying to recreate some of your earlier, more memorable experiences.